Saturday, 21 July 2007

Love ??

love and life are two different things and often we make the mistake of mixing these two. More often than not we see hindi film heroes go the debdas way just because a girl has ditched him, or even worse did not look at him, or sometimes has done the mistake of sleeping with the other man rather than sleeping with him. All these sentiments while on screen gives it a superiority it doesn't deserve, while looked at in the light of practicality becomes very sick, irrational sentiments.

Love is Love and should be looked at it as love only. Its not the only part of one's life, and its not the ultimate thing in one's life. Now don't look at me like preity zinta of dil chahta hai and start preaching that one day i will understand the importance of love and blah blah blah. I do understand that. I know that loves gives a lot and it can potentially take a lot too. And my objection is there. Is love such a great thing that you can allow it to take a toll on your life? I guess not. To me love is the name of a relationship, the relation which can not be described in any other name. Its a bit more than friendship and there is no blood ties lying beneath to give it a name and so we call it LOVE...


Friends, believe me love is no big deal. Its a mistake that people do. start trusting the other with their life. And so when it goes wrong, it feels like life torn apart. But have you ever questioned why? May be I am sounding too much defensive, may be i am a bit too negative here, but do think of the possibility that when love goes wrong what happens to love? definitely it is not something which should have the liberty to ruin your life...forget life not even a day or not even a moment of your precious life. Love is a sweet thing to have, a thing to feel proud of that you are loved by someone, and to love someone with same intensity is even more proud thing to do. but i do feel its not life.

2 comments:

dipti said...

sure i agree, its not EVERYTHING. and it shouldn't be either. its great to be in love, its fantastic to be truly loved, we should cherish it. about the question "what happens if it goes wrong and everything ends?" .. what happens? i believe one should be a grown up about it and TRY to move on. trust me, its not easy to move on, people take months, sometimes years. some people take weeks. some people a couple of days. its the intensity of love that makes the whole difference. one should have some other passions in life too besides loving your sweetheart. once love is EVERYTHING, then it gets a lil scary. But yeah, that doesn't mean we underestimate the power of love either. its magical. it can be destructive. it can be reforming. it can chnge your world for good or for bad. its just the way you take it. you got to have the maturity to balance life out.

but theres no other way to love than to love with all your heart. if you hold back thinking/fearing that one day it might end, then no one can totally experience the true meaning of love.

its not that simple.. yet it is ;)

Lalit said...

simple,rational and concise...
if only our emotions behaved that way..;)